A crucifix is not just a piece of jewelry - it is a meaningful reminder of an important stage in life. It is often a young person's first real piece of jewelry that will accompany them for years, even their entire lives.
When a confirmation cross is chosen thoughtfully, it becomes a valuable and personal part of a young person's story. Here are five things to consider when making your choice:
1. Material - what is a good material for a confessional cross?
A crucifix is a gift that is hoped to last a long time. That's why the material matters.
- Silver is a popular and affordable choice.
- Gold is timeless and valuable. It holds up well to wear and tear.
- Gold-plated silver is a great option when you're drawn to the golden style but your budget is limited.
2. Design and style - what kind of confirmation cross is popular?
A crucifix is not just a decoration - it is a symbol of the Christian faith. It is important to choose a design that feels personal and reflects the young person's personality.
- The classic cross pendant always works. It has been a favorite for many generations.
- A more modern or detailed design can make the piece of jewelry especially suitable for a young person who appreciates a unique style.
- Also remember the differences between religious denominations - for example, the Orthodox cross differs in design from the Lutheran cross.
3. Size - what size is a good confirmation cross?
A young person often prefers a slender cross that sits beautifully on the neck and feels comfortable to wear. On the other hand, a slightly larger size can give the cross a more impressive and masculine look.
Also consider whether the cross will be used for everyday use or mainly for festive occasions. For everyday use, a lightweight and smaller model that can withstand the rigors of life is best.
4. Chain - what is a good chain for a confirmation cross?
A good chain crowns a crucifix. The length and thickness of the chain affect both its appearance and comfort.
- The standard thickness of silver chains is 1.4 mm - it is suitable for girls and boys alike. A thicker chain (e.g. 2.1 mm) gives a more masculine look.
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Gold chains are often thinner due to the price of gold: 1.0 - 1.4 mm is a good choice.
Length:
- A 41-46 cm chain is usually suitable for girls (the standard size for women is 46 cm).
- For boys, often 46-51 cm.
The right length depends on the thickness of the neck and the height of the wearer - a taller person will need a longer chain. Hence the silver and gold chains.
5. Engraving - what is engraved on the confirmation cross?
Engraving makes the confirmation cross even more personal. Most often, the name of the young person and the date of confirmation are engraved - but if you wish, you can also add a short message, a Bible verse or a heart.
A small engraving turns the jewelry into a keepsake that will be meaningful for years to come.
Who gives the confirmation cross?
Traditionally, the young person's godfather gives the confirmation cross. Since many young people have more than one godfather, it is a good idea to discuss the matter with the parents in advance - and agree which of the godfathers will give the cross. At the same time, you can ask the young person's wishes if you want to make sure that the gift is really right.
Tip: Also check out the Evangelical Lutheran Church's tips for organizing a confirmation party.